asexual-domme:

• My go-to tactic: kiss them until they go weak and they forget you’re fighting.
• Become overly affectionate, and once they think they’ve won, roll on top of them and pin them.
• Have handcuffs and the like ready to grab and spring on them.
• Limit your attacks to pain you know they like. Scratch and pinch and slap in the places they can’t help but enjoy. A good hard spank and some subs will buckle and drop instinctively.
• Don’t fear a good old hair grab. Especially because it gives you access to vulnerable neck.
• Detailing exactly what you will do to them when you win – and that’s not if, that’s when – will lower any sub’s morale considerably.
• If they’re pushing an arm or leg down, pulling down yourself, faster, often pulls out of their grip.
• Wriggle. Especially wriggle into them.
• Use all your limbs. Lock your legs around them as well as your arms. Don’t be afraid to squeeze – you’ve got a safeword.
• Are they ticklish? You know the score.
• Bite. Everything.